Dearest ML,
Like my whatsapp discussed, what if we see our ex as "used furniture"?
Then -
1. He is an object. It is not necessary to attach too much emotions onto "it".
2. What if he is dating somebody else? He is an "used furniture" and I do not want "it" / it doesn't fit me anymore. Please feel free to take it & make use of it.
Seriously, I only wish I could have realized this a little bit earlier. Then I guess I can omit quite a bit of sorrow and unhappiness for that piece of "used furniture".
Revelation is - at the end of the day it all depends on our interpretation. And a smart girl will interpret the story in an angle that causes less pain and emotional distress.
k xoxo
funny quote my friend once sent me:
ReplyDelete"I don't get jealous when I see my EX with someone else, Because my mother always told me to give my old toys to the less fortunate..."
Mom's wisdom :)
ReplyDeleteI appreciate your feedback but it also depends on the issue of "who dumps who first"...
"Please feel free to take it & make use of it" lol. Mmm, I had had some hard feeling against a guy or a-holes who dumped me first, but a little while later, I came to a conclusion like, at least I had a good time with him at that time. I make a new partner, so it's natural he makes a new partner too. Good luck with it. Hope he cherishes his new partner.
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