Dear ML & g,
I hope you have spared some time to read through this terrific post!
1. So damn true that we girl meet up the wrong guy from the very beginning, someone who is an A hole, someone who is simply selfish and who cares more about himself, someone who doesn't know what he wants in life, or simply... someone who doesn't love you but just wanna an accompany for activities or sleeping buddy.
2. So damn true that one must be willing to suffer. It is not easy to tell an A hole from the very beginning. If we meet an A hole, we suffer. We cry lonely in bed to sleep (trust me, been there before). Assuming this is inevitable, the next question is "how we identify A hole" and "what we do if we meet an A hole"
3. So damn true of not giving up the faith. We must love ourselves first before someone loves us. We must treat ourselves with respect before someone treats us with respect.
4. So damn true in not settling for less. Why bother with how others see us or the senseless social labels attached to us? Why should we settle for less if we only deserve the best for respect, love and more?
5. So damn true in not going easy (hooking up). Your future husband or long term partner will not be interested in someone who hooks up easily. If you wanna have a ONS, fine. If you wanna have something serious, do not hook up easily.
6. So damn true in working out your own needs. How I see is sort out the qualities you are seeking in a stable loving partner. Be patient along the journey. Keep the guys radar on. Get yourself ready for your Mr. Right to come to your life. No one is perfect btw, be realistic and be ready to compromise.
When you are ready for the character how you wanna be in your love story: start preparing, start training (both physically and mentally). It is going to be a long journey, or "marathon" like what Tom said.
Be wise, be smart, be sexy, enjoy the ride and go with the flow.
k xoxo
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